As long as you deny your current situation either about work or private life (or both), the condition will not changed. It’s good to have dreams and ideals but if you deny the now, you cannot get close to your dreams. It’s because the future is at the head of the continuous now moments. The future is built by every step of present times. Therefore, denying the now is to deny the future.
The key to everything lay on the now, the present. If you could be in harmony with the current situation, your future would become a good one.
Even the situation looks very bad, as long as you are alive, there is always something to be grateful about. Be grateful that you are alive and simply continue to do what you should be doing. A change for the better might come quickly than you think. If you give up on your present, you are giving up your future too. Be responsible on your acts and thoughts.
There is a saying in Japanese, “the neighbor’s yard looks more green”. Most people are hungry for “more” that creates ego. To those who are satisfied with the present situation and those who are in gratitude can see the neighbor’s yard as simply another garden, nothing more nothing less.
Romance is the same. Other people’s lover looks more attractive. But once you abduct the lover, you are no longer so interested. The executed Saddam Hussein favored married women as his lovers. It is said that he had few hundred lovers. The married wives had their own loving family. But the more he tried to refuse them the more they became obsessed with him. This is exactly a work of an evil that destroys everything. I sense that he was brought up in a broken family and his mother had relationships with more than one man. The reason why he favored married women comes from lack of receiving motherhood. He was hungry and obsessed for mothery love.
Don't think that your will stop growing if when you are satisfied with the present. In fact, when you could appreciate the present, you can grow more because you are vital to work more toward the future.
As long as you are complaining about your current situation, you are wasting a lot of energy and nothing will do you good. If you could accept the present and be grateful, it is so much more efficient.
You must ride along this World of Reality with the sense of gratitude. “Ikashite-itadaite arigato-gozaimasu” is the frequency of energy that you can bring to the other world and lead you to true happiness. It is the best and the shortest way to be in the safety zone. These words (kotodama) will take you back from ego to true-self.
Thank you for letting us live
I would like to spread the Gratitude Awareness towards ancestral spirits and everything around you so 5% of the world population will start acting on it on a daily basis.